Swearing does not make you cool ❞

Seriously. Swearing does not make you cool at all. Just like stop swearing for the sake of swearing. It seems so forced and unnatural. Furthermore, it makes you seem so rude, which is seriously not a good impression and first impressions do not change easily.

! | Being tardy does not make you seem cool either ❞

Please, there is this guy I know who always comes late, and honestly, I have such a bad impression fo him. When he walks in, he tries to look cool. But to me, he is not succeeding at all. Being late also give bad impressions You thin that being late is cool? No, especially f you are at least 15 minutes late all the time. You will seem pretty irresponsible and honestly, I would not like you very much.

Be yourself ❞

Trying to act cool, be funny, basically someone who is not yourself is real cringe. I would rather like to see what kind of person you are rather than the fake persona you are putting up If you are just this way naturally, we can tell. Even if you are not that humorous or cool, you have your own charms too, do not worry!

Being someone you are not makes no whole situation so cringey. You will seem So unnatural and the whole situation will be so awkward.

We appreciate you for who you are, and not the kind of person you are trying to be.

Try to be more approachable ❞

Seriously, some of you guys give off the vibe that just make people want to avoid you. Try to be more approachable, smile more, do not always have that frown n your face, it will make people find you more nice and more people will approach you. You always complain that people do not like you, but, the way you talk, your expressions and everything make it seem that you do not want us to approach you.

We are not thinking about guys all the time ❞

Seriously? Like please, I have other more important things in my live to think about. Not everything that goes through our mind is about relationships and how to make guys like us. Please, his is so cringe. And another thing, we are not pushovers, just because we. Are girls, you think you can take advantage of us? No. In fact, you will be regretting it so, so much.

Stop being so jealous so easily ❞

When we talk to other guys or we spend more time with our friends, there is no need to be jealous. Like really. There is no one who can replace you. Just accept the fact that we have other friends and move on.

The world does not revolve around you ❞

Not everything we talk about, think about or write about is about you. There is no need to turn your head every time when we say “he” like seriously. There are other guys on this planet too.

The is no point replying dms late for the sake of doing it ❞

Replying dms late so that you are not clingy or just to make yourself look cool does not sit well, at all, honestly. It makes you seem self-conceited and just plainly rude sometimes, when you are obviously online no have acknowledged that we have sent a message. If this goes on for too long, we may lose interest. Not replying dms immediately is completely fine, bu just replying like 6 hours later all the time makes no sense at all. They might be busy, but what about someone who is obviously online, replies to your friends and chats in grou chats while you are just waiting for his reply?

There is no need for you to treat us as “girls” persay ❞

If we are good friends, just treat us like how you treat any other friend of yours. There is no need to say thing like “I shouldn’t ask a girl this” or things like this!

When we say we hate you, we do not necessarily mean it ❞

Most of the time, but of course there are exceptions. When we say it, it is usually because we are annoyed at something you did. Please do not take it seriously.

We are pretty insensitive when it comes to words ❞

Do not take what we say to heart! Sometimes due to some circumstances, we are pretty insensitive and say things which are hurtful without us actually meaning it. Sorry.

We have days when we want to be alone ❞

When we tell you go away, I would say to just leave us alone. We will reach out for you when we really need help. We like our alone time.

Offer us a warm drink or a jacket when we are one our period ❞

Most girls suffer from bad cramps. And one way to help make the cramps less severe would be to drink a warm drink or just keep warm in general.

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Recently, I was with my friend, so after we meet for an hour or so I gave her a lift halfway through her house (I was walking)

When we were walking a group of three boys were there.

One boy: and which phone you will buy?

*in loud voice*

He: iPhone gold and iPhone silver

My friend’s exact reaction was “what he is talking about? He is so rich or what?”

Me to her: nothing he is just showing us how dumb he is.

After dropping my friend halfway I returned from the same street.

Again the boy *in loud voice*

So, you want a beer or what?

Another one: nothing is there in girl and (sab Dokha hai n all)

I don’t react to anything I was on my way to the house.

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Alright, here goes nothing.

• the friend zone isn’t a bad place to be, we love our guy friends and appreciate them very much
• it doesn’t really matter how nice you are, how hot you are, how funny you are— if we’re not interested, were not interested. Sorry, I don’t control who I’m attracted to.
• we are also incredibly stupid sometimes, if you like us, tell us.
• we will analyze everything our crush says or does, which causes us to overthink and either convince us you like us or you don’t. So if you do, please tell us.
• don’t worry too much about your appearance. Just make sure you’re clean, neat, and take care of yourself. Lots of the time, your personality is what makes us think you’re hot.
• some attractive personality traits are having a sense of humor, being mature but not stuck up, confidence, intelligence, and down to earth
• don’t talk about feminism to try to impress a girl. Yes, we are aware of those crazy third wave feminists and will not support them if we’re sane. However, if you talk negatively about feminism, it makes you seem like an asshole.
• you can cry and show emotions, we don’t care
• we love a guy who can carry a conversation, but also will ask us questions and let us talk. We get self-conscious thinking we’re talking too much if you never talk about yourself.
• we’re not offended by boners, however, we might act weird or embarrassed because we know you’re embarrassed and are trying not to make you feel bad
• periods do suck but we’re not helpless. It’s okay to ask questions if you know us well enough. Be nice is all we ask. If you’re dating us or are really good/best friends (especially if you like us), we will always appreciate chocolate or some coffee and will love you forever one way or another.
• don’t hit us up if you have a girlfriend, we’re not stupid
• never play a girl, it breaks her
• it’s okay to have preferences but never ask a girl to change who she is if you’re dating
• if you notice we’re bleeding, tell us in a polite way. We will be mortified but are thankful. If you want to impress us or just to be nice, give her your sweatshirt if it’s a dark color. We’ll make sure it gets washed and that it’ll be fine.
• No means no, but hopefully, you know that by now
• you want to know how to get a girlfriend? take care of yourself. befriend us. don’t talk about your genitals or sex jokes, that’s how to get into the friendzone. flirt with us. ask for our number. then ask us out on a date (in person). pick us up, and be prepared (this is just nice because you asked us out on a date, not the other way around) to pay. We will offer to pay sometimes, but decline if you ask her out. if things go well, keep going on dates. do what’s natural. then, when you want to go steady, ask her to be your girlfriend to clear up any confusion.

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As a teen girl, I think I can answer this question..

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• If we’re with you, and still have or make guy friends. Come on stop getting so insecure we still love you and not that guy. We labelled him as a friend and he is that only.
• Period cramps are real and no we are not hyping them up. Mood swings exist and if you can’t handle then leave us alone at that time please.
• Try and respect our thoughts and opinions. Stop trying to show your misogyny as real masculinity, its not. Yes, we are equal in every area and every thing.
• We tell you we don’t like you or we are breaking up with you, its for real. Accept it and stop trying to make our life a hell.
• If you want to say something you don’t like about us, stop trying to give hints. Be straight forward.
• Stop trying to act like you are so cool or something like that. We are not babies and can differentiate between acting and real cool.
• Flexing about your physique or your daddy’s money is not gonna make us fall for you or portray you as “ Oooh that guy is so amazing”. No sweetheart, its a big NO!
• If some days we are busy, its okay god we have other things to do as well. We like a change in our routine too and if we didn’t talk one day, its okay bud.
• If we love something, do respect it and try to support okay, expect the same from us.
• If we say we are feminists, don’t get all angry and start ranting about male rights. We said feminists and not misandrists.
• If we are telling about our problems then don’t ever try to compare them with yours. You might have more problems, but you don’t need to rant at the exact same time as us.

That’s all I wish for the teenage guys around me to know.